I really wanted to share this as I just watched it, It shows a couple real life different poly families.
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Polyamoury
So more vanilla family is on its way on Friday, I am excited and scared at the same time. My vanilla best friend is coming into town and we finally get to spend some time together, and she finally gets to see the real me. I have come out to her about the situation that I am in. I have come out to her about BDSM, Poly, and Bi. She is the only vanilla person that knows about it all. So it will be an adventure.
A week after she leaves my Dad is coming in to town for my 30th birthday week, and I am ecstatic. I cannot believe my Dad is coming down finally to see us, however I am petrified that he is going to find out, and then how do I calmly explain it to him. That I am basically a hedonist? I wish that there were more poly people following this so I can get their opinions on it.
We are also as a family debating and talking about Collaring and Poly Wedding stuff. We really need to get the collaring done, as I am seeking an actual slave. I cannot have two boys under consideration at the same time. The big thing that is holding us up is that I am making his formal collar.
There are some amazing poly stories out there!
A week after she leaves my Dad is coming in to town for my 30th birthday week, and I am ecstatic. I cannot believe my Dad is coming down finally to see us, however I am petrified that he is going to find out, and then how do I calmly explain it to him. That I am basically a hedonist? I wish that there were more poly people following this so I can get their opinions on it.
We are also as a family debating and talking about Collaring and Poly Wedding stuff. We really need to get the collaring done, as I am seeking an actual slave. I cannot have two boys under consideration at the same time. The big thing that is holding us up is that I am making his formal collar.
There are some amazing poly stories out there!
That is the flag for poly pride
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Polyamory and Vanilla Family
So I know it has been a while since I have blogged however I feel it is necessary to blog now.
The three of us A, M, and N have been in a PolyFamily for almost 2 years now... WOW... I cannot believe it has been that long.
Anyway, back on point, N's brothers are coming to visit and we are having to "vanilla-ize" our house, as they do not know I am Married to M. Taking down photos and stuff that links myself to M in a Married way. We had to tell his brothers that M and I are brother and sister. At least until he retires from his current job, after that N has decided to "come out" to his family. Especially as they are a lot closer geographically to us than M's family or Mine.
One thing that is most frustrating is that N and I do a lot if not most of the cleaning in the house. So here we are cleaning and getting ready for guests, and when I ask M to help he says "maybe". I had to remind him that OUR families will be coming later in the year and N will be helping out to clean then and that he needs to make time to help clean. Ok enough bitching.
It is really hard as M's and N's families both know about me but the families think that I am only in a relationship with one of them and the other is either my brother or my roommate. I want to come out to my family but I know that it would be looked down upon. I am not really sure what to do...
Anyone else going through same or similar things? comments?
The three of us A, M, and N have been in a PolyFamily for almost 2 years now... WOW... I cannot believe it has been that long.
Anyway, back on point, N's brothers are coming to visit and we are having to "vanilla-ize" our house, as they do not know I am Married to M. Taking down photos and stuff that links myself to M in a Married way. We had to tell his brothers that M and I are brother and sister. At least until he retires from his current job, after that N has decided to "come out" to his family. Especially as they are a lot closer geographically to us than M's family or Mine.
One thing that is most frustrating is that N and I do a lot if not most of the cleaning in the house. So here we are cleaning and getting ready for guests, and when I ask M to help he says "maybe". I had to remind him that OUR families will be coming later in the year and N will be helping out to clean then and that he needs to make time to help clean. Ok enough bitching.
It is really hard as M's and N's families both know about me but the families think that I am only in a relationship with one of them and the other is either my brother or my roommate. I want to come out to my family but I know that it would be looked down upon. I am not really sure what to do...
Anyone else going through same or similar things? comments?
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